Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Tribute to Granddady



Rob wrote a special tribute to Granddaddy last week before he passed away on Sunday. I thought I would share these precious words with you all.

Granddaddy-


Although most of my good traits come from you, one that I did not inherit was the ability to express myself on paper as eloquently as you. It pains me to see you hurt. I wish I could help you, but I am powerless. My thoughts are random and scattered...Here is a short list of the things that I have inherited from you..love of family, work ethic, the power of story telling and family history, compassion, integrity, the understanding that our wealth is in who we love and not what is in our pocket, our homes are not ours but God's, and are a place of shelter and peace for our families, it is ok to help folks out and not expect any reciprocity, how to be a father, how to be a friend, to do what is right even if it hurts, commitment, faithfulness, forgiveness, it's worth taking extra time to complete a task correctly, love for a relative does not die ever, tenderness, jokes are powerful and healing, how to get up after you have been knocked down. To be honest, the list goes on and on, and will continue to...

My new favorite song is "Head Full of Doubt/Road Full of Promises" It talks of a place where nothing is owed, deserved or expected, and your life doesn't change by the man that's elected and your loved by someone and never rejected.. It talks about a dream that, like a bird is locked in a cage and he longs to free it. I want you here but I want you to be free. I want our doubts to vanish and be replaced by the fullfillment of a promise that was made on a cross 2000 years ago. I'm not in a hurry to see you leave this world, believe me, I can't imagine it without you, but I have been granted peace by our Heavenly Father about what you are facing. I know none of us are guaranteed tomorrow and I'm not at all trying to be dark. This type of thinking gives me peace.

I know we will all recongnize each other in heaven. We have to be able to or it won't be right. In heaven I look foward to seeing you in your youthful state, meeting your Dad, building with the Billingsleys, gardening with the Tabors, getting beat by you in the 100yd, dash. That's what heaven is like I'm sure. I love and respect you deeply. Your worth to me is immeasurable. You stood in the gap when I needed it and showed me a father's love.

Rob

Tuesday, April 06, 2010

A whole Hand



Kinley turned 5 years old this month!  I can't believe she is a whole hand!  We had a cupcake birthday party for her and I'll give more details on that later but first I want to focus on some of the things you are doing these days.
1) You are the Cartwheel Queen.  You are forever doing cartwheels and handstands.  You have just about perfected both.
2) You love clothes.  You change clothes about ten times a day, always coming up with a unique ensemble.
3) Your closest buddies are Abbie, your cousin and Emma, a little girl that will be in your kinder class next year.  Although you and Maddie have started a "Sister Sister club" and you can Cade are best buddies.
4) You are into drawing lately and you have really gotten good at it.
5) You adore your family and spending time with them.  You will do anything to have quality time with anyone that you love.
6) You are a little obsessed with washing your hands especially around your baby cousins.
7) I love how you say willn't instead of won't.
8) Your room is always messy which drives your sister crazy!
9) You love to hang out on "the tramp" with your brother and sister.
10) Your favorite drink is chocolate milk.
11)  You have created a secret sign that you and I flash to each other in private.  Don't worry I'll never tell. :)
12)  You are one of the sweetest most tenderhearted people that I know.  You are always feeling for others and I can't wait to see how God uses your heart of gold for His glory.
I love you Kin-Kin!

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